Have you ever been standing on the edge of something new—a decision, a change, a risk—and felt like fear was screaming louder than your faith?
Me too.
It doesn’t matter how long we’ve been walking with God. There will always be moments where the future feels foggy and the fear feels real. So what do we do when we want to trust God, but we can’t seem to silence the “what ifs”?
Let’s talk about it. Not from a place of pressure or performance, but from a place of process. Because this journey from fear to faith? It’s not about pretending. It’s about learning how to walk with God into the unknown—even when we still feel a little shaky.
Fear is a Natural Reaction—But Not a Permanent Home
Let’s get something straight right off the bat:
Feeling afraid doesn’t make you weak. It makes you human.
Throughout Scripture, we see faithful, God-loving people feel afraid:
- Moses was afraid to speak.
- Gideon was afraid to lead.
- Esther was afraid to go before the king.
- Peter was afraid to walk on water.
And yet… God used all of them.
Not once did God say, “Come back when you’re braver.”
Instead, He said things like:
- “I will be with you.”
- “Do not be afraid.”
- “Take courage.”
Fear isn’t a sign that we lack faith. It’s a sign that we’re standing on the edge of something important.
The real question is: Will we let fear lead us, or will we let God?
What the Bible Actually Says About Facing the Unknown
We love quoting Jeremiah 29:11: “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord…
But let’s be honest. We want to know the plans too. We want the full spreadsheet. The safety net. The confirmation email from heaven.
And most of the time? We don’t get it.
Instead, God gives us enough light for the next step.
The Bible is full of moments where God asks people to step out before they know how it all turns out:
- Abraham left his homeland not knowing where he was going (Hebrews 11:8).
- The Israelites had to step into the Jordan River before it parted.
- Peter had to get out of the boat to walk on the water.
None of these moments made logical sense. But they all required faith.
Because faith isn’t certainty. Faith is trusting the One who knows, even when you don’t.
If you’re facing something unknown right now, it doesn’t mean God has forgotten you. It might mean He’s calling you closer.
The Science of Fear and Why It Feels So Loud
Now let’s peek under the hood a little.
Your brain is wired for survival. The amygdala, a small part of your brain, is like your built-in alarm system. It scans for threats and triggers a fear response to keep you safe.
But here’s the tricky part:
Your brain doesn’t always know the difference between a real threat and a perceived one.
So stepping into a new job, setting a boundary, or trusting God with your finances can feel like danger—even if you’re not actually in harm’s way.
Your body responds with:
- Racing heart
- Shallow breath
- Muscle tension
- Catastrophic thoughts
…which makes fear feel really, really convincing.
But science also shows this: When you slow down, breathe deeply, and speak truth, you shift your brain into a more rational state.
This is why Scripture says things like:
“Be still and know that I am God.” (Psalm 46:10)
Stillness isn’t just spiritual. It’s physiological.
When we slow down, breathe, and center on God’s promises, we activate the prefrontal cortex—the part of the brain that helps us make wise decisions.
You’re not broken for feeling afraid. You’re just learning how to walk through fear instead of camp in it.
God Doesn’t Need You to Be Fearless—Just Willing
If you’ve been waiting to “feel ready,” let me gently say this:
You don’t need to be fearless to follow God.
You just need to be willing.
God does His best work through trembling hands and wobbly knees.
Think about it:
- Gideon needed signs.
- Moses needed help.
- Jeremiah said he was too young.
But God didn’t back off. He drew closer.
He doesn’t shame our humanity. He works through it.
So if you feel uncertain, unqualified, or undone… you’re in excellent company.
God’s not looking for the strongest. He’s looking for the surrendered.
“When I am weak, then I am strong.” (2 Corinthians 12:10)
Faith isn’t about gritting your teeth and faking peace. It’s about being real with your fear and still choosing to trust the One who sees the full picture.
Your Next Step Might Be Smaller Than You Think
Sometimes we get stuck because we think faith means making a giant leap.
But more often?
Faith looks like a baby step.
- One honest prayer
- One hard conversation
- One boundary drawn
- One email sent
God doesn’t need you to move a mountain. He just asks you to move.
When the Israelites were stuck at the Red Sea, God didn’t say, “Stand there and panic.” He said, “Move forward.”(Exodus 14:15)
So what would moving forward look like for you today? Not in theory. Not someday. But today.
Maybe it’s saying, “God, I don’t know what’s ahead—but I’m trusting that You do.”
And that might be all you need to say.
Because here’s the truth: You don’t have to take a giant leap of faith. You just have to take the next step with God.
And He’ll meet you there.
A Gentle Invitation for When You Feel Stuck Between Fear and Faith
If you’re in the in-between—not quite in fear, not quite walking in full faith—you’re not alone.
We all need safe spaces to wrestle, reflect, and realign.
💜 Join me in The Purple Room, where you’ll feel seen, heard, and gently supported by others walking through the same emotional and spiritual journey. No cost.
Or if you’re more of a quiet processor, you can get free access to a free space that offers journaling prompts, guided reflections, and helpful tools to strengthen your emotional and spiritual resilience.
Whatever your next step is… just know:
You don’t have to be fearless to follow God.
You just have to say yes.
One honest step at a time.